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Reply to "Please tell me you don't "thank" your spouse..."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP - this happened with my and my DH pre-baby. I nipped it in the bud and I am so glad I did. I pointed out he didn't thank me for doing things around the house... Why? Because he expected me to do it and it was a minimum expectation for living in a space and taking care of it. Same for him. It's no more my 'job' than it is his. I expect him to be a decent human/partner/roommate, and I won't be thanking him like he did me some sort of favor. He heard me and has been more attentive ever since. Now post-baby we have a pretty explicit divide of who does what so if one of us steps in to help the other we do thank each other. [/quote]
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