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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You do need an attorney because there are complicated situations that affect the sequence. If you live in a state where you can file anytime, that is quite different from a state that requires you to live separately for a year (or two). Also you need a custodial plan, in case your spouse does take child. Also you need advice if you would get spousal support because of your employment gap. If I were you, I'd seek legal advice. [/quote] I went in for a free consult. I can file anytime in my state. Yes I am entitled to spousal support and it's even heftier than child support. He would have to pay my attorney fees and my education/retraining if need be. The problem is, he is not rich. He has a lower 6 figure income. If I piss him off with all the demands, he might just go berserk. Not necessarily move abroad, but might start custody battles and such. On the other hand, a friend of mine says that he is only brave when there is a weakling in front of him. Honestly, I am pretty intimidated by him right now due to years of financial and emotional abuse. So it's hard to think clearly. [/quote]
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