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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Actually, it is never too late; however, you should work on yourself and put work into saving your marriage. With children involved you should make every effort to save this marriage before you walk away. No relationship is problem free.[/quote]

+1 I'm normally someone who is fine with divorce but you've made no effort.  Your husband being emotionally unavailable to you a couple days/week periodically is no big deal.  Stop mirroring him.  Have you never been sick, ever been PMSing?  And, I say this as someone whose DH has had several major depressive episodes and can't stop meds.  Get some counseling and work on your marriage.[/quote]

OP here. Thanks all for the feedback. He won't go to any kind of counseling. I've suggested it for our marriage. I've suggested it other times for his depression (which despite what some people her say is not normal). He refuses... he doesn't believe in counseling.[/quote]

counseling for you on how to live with someone with depression.  You also have your own issues - the line between being supportive of someone else's help and trying to fix or do for them seems muddled; and you seem to frame your happiness as dependent on his happiness; and, finally, you are clearly having some kind of buyer's remorse which you need to sort out with a professional (but not without honestly trying also to address your other issues).

These are YOUR issues.  They may have arisen because you believe he is depressed, but the way you react to and cope with that is what is within your control.[/quote]

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