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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you both and how long have you been together? My DH when we first started dating literally would turn up at lunches I was having with female friends as a "surprise" when I think he was checking I wasn't meeting a guy. But it stopped because it was obvious I wasn't cheating and had no intention of doing so. I'm basically the most non-flirtatious non-cheaty person, ever in the universe. He is not paranoid now and never checks my phone or email. We've been happily married for nearly 15 years and have two kids.[/quote] Your DH was acting like a crazy person. Just because you were ok with this, does not mean it is ok to do in general. You either have the ability to trust someone or you don't. If you are checking up on random lunches, you are in the "can NOT trust" category and need to seek therapy, not a relationship.[/quote]
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