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[quote=Anonymous]He's always been this way, just worse as the years have gone on. Been married 5yrs, no kids. He doesn't hold my hand, he never initiates, when I initiate I am rejected 99.9% of the time (not an exaggeration). We have had sex 6 times in 5 years of marriage. We had sex once a week prior to marriage. When we got married, it stopped. He takes care of the house, does nice things for me, we go out on "date nights" dinner, movies, sporting events, travel. There is no intimacy at all. We go to the gym together, we are both fit and in good shape. I'm 29, he's 34

We are best friends, room mates basically.

We read the 5 languages of love and both fill out the exercise in the back of the book. 
My number 1 is physical touch, my number is 2 words of encouragement, my number 5 is receiving gifts
His number 1 is receiving gifts, his number 2 is words of encouragement, his number 5 is physical touch

I've brought it up a lot. He says he'll try to change. He never has.

Do I give him an ultimatum? Are we just completely incompatible as a couple?

I can't live the rest of my life this way.[/quote]

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