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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How late does he run? Whatever the average lateness is, subtract that from the actual event time.  If he's always a half hour late and the party is at three let him know the party is at 2:30.  For every single event.

I think he needs to understand that he doesn't see it as a problem but that every single other person in his life sees it negatively. Often people who are late are so because they are self important. They often deny this. But If he realized people thought of him so negatively he would probably change his behavior.  So appeal to the narcissist in him.

I'm interested in the family vacation scenario though. What do you mean it didn't go well? Did he really see himself as the victim in it instead of understanding what position it puts you in to be late all the time? Whatever stress he felt when you did that, did he not understand that that's the stress you feel every time he does this? [/quote]

We used to do this to my Dad and lie about the time.  Still do... works well.  [/quote]

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