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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, it sounds like everyone (except bf) did the right thing.  layla was supported by everyone but I'm guessing she may not feel that way - since your mom was dating the crazed bigot in the first place.  so, reach out to show your support some way if you can.

also, and perhaps more urgently, I'm worried about your mom's safety.  given the comments about the gun and general nastiness, it is worth remembering that violent partners are most dangerous when the abused person leaves.  now, I'm not saying your mom was abused but he sounds like a dangerous person.  I'm no expert but perhaps consult with someone who is.  (police or DA's office, local womens shelter or local attorney might have some advice)[/quote]

Please insist your mom change ALL the locks on her home (even if she says she didn't give him a key; he could easily have grabbed an extra key or had one made). And as this PP says, consult with someone who can give concrete steps for her protection. I agree that he sounds potentially dangerous.

Also keep close tabs on mom because if there is any chance she could convince herself this was an aberration, she's lonely, etc.--that could mean she might send him again. [/quote]

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