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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks 9:36, good advice.

9:38 -- no we don't.  he also called me unstable after I chose to scream like a banshee about how I was sorry his back was sore all week but try being in chronic pain for 20 years as I have been.  Told me to feel free to go see someone as it sounded like I had a lot of pent up anger.

((SIGH))[/quote]

If he is not used to being in pain, is it possible it was the pain talking? Not making excuses. Im sorry to hear you have chronic pain issues. Thats a terrible drain on ones resources.

Look, clearly you guys need to talk, but my advice definitely is in line with 9:36.  You mention "bigger issues". Whatever those are, they need their own talking time. Probably best left for way later, apologies now could center more around the little things that were not worth arguing about.

Maybe go do something together for the heck of it? Dinner and a movie? Lunch? WHatever. Just something different. "(honey) I think we both need to go do something fun for a change."

As for the name calling, that is really bad. He may be shocked himself. I dont know. You need to address it. I suggest focusing on what he was feeling when he called you that, as opposed to him calling you that. Let HIM apologize for that rather than making him. [/quote]

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