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[quote=Anonymous]Part of this is just the consequence of living with someone 24-7. People are annoying, even the best of them, so that's something you have to accept.

Seems like your mil is. It in her home and doesn't have much in her life to call her own. She derives a sense of purpose and meaning from feeling "needed" and "wanted" by her granddaughter. She probably exaggerates it but it's important for her emotional and mental health. My mil is like this too, especially with my first, and would take credit for a lot of things. She doesn't live with me but lives close by. I get that this is incredibly annoying, but your patience in this is really a gift for her.

Still when it's someone living with you, some of the niceties need to go. Sometimes when she's interfering in discipline or something, you just need to firmly say, "I got this," and not engage in further explanations and excuses. She. Reds to know that sometimes she has to back off. This is probably a discussion dh needs to have with her too, while emphasizing how much you appreciate her help.

You guys should also book a spa day or or social visits or something for grandma and plan family outings for just the three of you.[/quote]

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