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[quote=Anonymous]PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING. Seriously. Not some BS one-weekend church thing. I'm talking hire a professional, licensed counselor. I think every couple should do at least 3 - 4 sessions anyway, but this is a major major major major area you're showing significant incompatibility in. It encompasses the following problems: - Family boundaries - Incompatible senses of adventure - Geographic preference - Potentially money issues depending on the cost of living for the area his family lives in Any one of these can break a marriage apart. This issue you're describing rolls a whole bunch of them into one tidy little topic that will look like "He wants to live close to his family and I don't," but it has so many layers. YOU MUST RESOLVE THIS. Don't just think "We'll sort it out later" or even if he gives in for now, it's not settled. If you have a single doubt about knowing how to work through this, delay the wedding. Trust your deepest gut here. [/quote]
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