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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is your DH's sister? What does he have to say? Are you and he in agreement? If so, and if your ILs bring it up, you can refer them to DH. [/quote] We are in agreement. And we agree that Aunt Larla won't be the best influence on our kids and at some point will hurt their feelings. The problem is, DH wants to see his parents and wants the kids and I there. SIL rarely leaves their parents's house. She's married with children but she can't handle change so she finds herself constantly at her parents.[/quote] I'd give it a few more visits. If there are no "scenes" then continue the visits. But if Aunt Larla starts going off and making a scene, then simply gather the kids and leave. After that DHis free to visit on his own and grandparents are invited to visit at your house or at a park or restaurant near their home. You do NOT have to make every visit at their house. Do not subject yourself or your kids to toxic behavior. [/quote]
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