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[quote=Anonymous]Who cares if she accuses you of being selfish? Just say no - this is your kid and your time with her is already diminished by split custody. Don't feel guilty about wanting to spend time with your child. Can you arrange a standing "date?" Like, maybe Grandma takes her every Thursday after school/camp for a few hours and returns her after dinner. Anything else has to go through your ex. If you have a set schedule and she knows all other requests to you will be met with a no, she should stop bugging you. And bonus, you can make plans knowing you'll have that free time. I do think, however, that what your daughter wants should matter here. Does she enjoy grandma time? [/quote]
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