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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a 42yo recently divorced, professional woman. I feel like I'd like to start dating but am self-conscious about my weight and feel maybe I shouldn't bother dating until I've lost 40 pounds. This is an issue I've struggled with my whole life. Yes, some might say, just lose the weight, but I'm finding it harder than that. On the one hand I don't want to sell myself short, i.e. I am above average pretty, smart and have my act together, not to mention healthy sex drive with good skills in the bedroom. And maybe I am selling 40+ yr old men short by assuming that they will automatically be turned off by an overweight woman... Curious about perspectives for a reality check... Thanks[/quote]

Unless you plan on dating 20yr olds you won't find that many men in their 40's that are in that much better shape. I am in my 50's and a runner and finding a man even close to my age that is even remotely close to being as fit as I am is damn well near impossible and I don't like young boys so I am always stuck with some fat ass who is talking about how he plans to loose wt and get in shape as he stuffs a burger in his face. I wouldn't worry about loosing the wt unless you want to do it for yourself.[/quote]

OP, have you seen most men over 40? Yuck. [/quote]

Yep take a look at women over forty...yuck! [/quote]

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