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[quote=Anonymous]I would say focus hard on losing the weight, except for your statement that you're "above average pretty." When I'm 30 lbs overweight, I am not above average pretty, and I am basically invisible if not outright seemingly offensive to look at to the non-married eye in DC. Having recently lost 10 lbs, I realize that suddenly lots more men acknowledge my existence ... It also looks to me that many or most available professional men in their 40ies in DC are fit. So I think it comes down to your sense of the feedback you're getting right now from available men. If you feel invisible, lose weight until you don't. If you're getting attention from men, then why not try dating, even if you feel a bit overweight.[/quote]
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