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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a 42yo recently divorced, professional woman. I feel like I'd like to start dating but am self-conscious about my weight and feel maybe I shouldn't bother dating until I've lost 40 pounds. This is an issue I've struggled with my whole life. [b]Yes, some might say, just lose the weight, but I'm finding it harder than that.[/b] On the one hand I don't want to sell myself short, i.e. I am above average pretty, smart and have my act together, not to mention healthy sex drive with good skills in the bedroom. And maybe I am selling 40+ yr old men short by assuming that they will automatically be turned off by an overweight woman... Curious about perspectives for a reality check... Thanks[/quote] Lose 40 pounds and all those easy excuses. Why do you assume fitness is an easy pursuit for others?[/quote]
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