Reply to DH Cannot Handle Two Kids. How do you know when leaving is the right move?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "DH Cannot Handle Two Kids. How do you know when leaving is the right move?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]On the ledge....tell me I'm not alone and it gets better or I just need sleep, someone. I feel like my marriage is fragile as heck right now and sort of on the rocks. When does it get easier with a 3 year old and a 6 month old? My husband is in an awful mood literally always. He's miserable and it's really starting to wear on me. I'm on eggshells constantly. He's just not a nice person at all anymore. Literally the only time he is happy is if other people/friends are around or when he is about to go nap or headed to play golf. Family activities that used to be fun, even a short visit to the park are burdensome for him. He is impatient and grouchy with our toddler and he just cannot handle any of the normal whining, boundary pushing or...like anything. He snaps constantly. He says the happiest moment of his day is when he can go to sleep. I get it. I do. But like, I am barely holding it together with not a lot of sleep and I'm just like, really??! It would be so much easier being a team. Being kind to one another. I feel like I am doing it all. But on top of the kid stuff and working my own busy career, I have to deal with this grown man child throwing tantrums? Ugh. I know I am hormonal and breastfeeding, so maybe it’s that. But we are so icy and cold to eachother now. The intimacy is gone. When does this start to get easier, or, like how do you survive this? [b]He is stressed beyond belief with work (self inflicted)[/b] and on weekends he's about to drive off the side of the road because the toddler is whining in the backseat. Part of me thinks...I know it would be insanely hard on my own, but I just want to be happy and I want the girls to be happy. The three year old has started asking, "Why are you mad at mommy?" when he is in his bad mood stomping around. I hate being anxious all the time around him. Bleh. I know we are in the trenches right? But aren't these supposed to be the sweet years? Someone tell me this gets easier soon... and thanks for letting me vent. Sincerely appreciate it.[/quote]
His is self inflicted but your's isn't?[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics