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[quote=Anonymous][b]Who's in there? 
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Hey, it's me.

[b]What's going on? 
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I'm making a snack.

[b]What do you need? 
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Food. I'm hungry. Don't worry though, I'm making it myself.

[b]Are you eating again?
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Of course, I haven't eaten since 9am. Why aren't you eating? Should I be worried about you? Do you have an eating disorder? I know someone with an eating disorder and she didn't eat for 8 hours at a time either... maybe I could ask for a recommendation for an eating disorder therapist? I'm sure she'd know someone good around here... (etc)

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I just can't take the judgment/scrutiny.[/b]

She's the one with an issue. Not you. Put the judgement back on her.

And if she says anything beyond the above, just say that food is necessary for life, and if it's not possible to eat the way normal people eat while you're in her house then you guys will have to decline visits in future. And maybe you guys can all just meet for a visit at the museum or something where people don't have to eat and so her eating disorder won't be an issue.
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