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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1) Her being a boomer has nothing to do with her behavior. 2) If she is fully capable, stop doing things for her. Tell her you have enough on your plate and that she is perfectly capable to handling that on her own. If she huffs and puffs, let her. It sounds like she has been pampered and pussyfooted around her whole life. She will not change, but you can change the way you react and your piece of mind will be better for it. If you need help, consult a therapist for how to draw an aproapriate boundary. It may take a few sessions, but it will not take more than 6 months for you to figure it all out and become okay with it. 3) You have to figure out how much of a relationship you would like your children to have with her and how much you are willing to do to foster that. [/quote] +1 [/quote]
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