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[quote=Anonymous]My colleague chased after me for 3  years and we were really good friends until I decided to give a relationship a shot. He was on and off with his girlfriend and always had several women on the side. Most of the time we spent together were recaps of his escapades. He would call me at 3am to tell me how easy it was to get his latest catch. I would listen, laugh and tell him to get back with his girlfriend. He had deep emotional conections with most of these women and ai often wondered how he managed them all. I was single and hadn't been on a date or had a boyfriend in almost 10 years. Long story short we started getting intimate with the understanding that I was one of many. He gave me so much time and attention, I told my best friend no man had given me that much attention and affection. He was sensitive and every wonderful thing you can think of. 3 months after it started he started acting out of character- forgetting to call, standing me on dates,etc. At first he denied it was happening and later said he was tired. Of doing all the work. Well I started doing everything I could to please him but at 41 there were enougg signs to prove he was done. Eventually, he said he preferred for us to stay. Friends and cut off everything else. I was devastated and told him it would be difficult for me. I just wanted to cut ties completely, not because - didn't care but because I was going through the whole crying myself to sleep thing and needed some time away. He still continued texting me to talk about his family and other things and - told him I just couldn't do it. He is getting transferred across the country and I only speak to him about work while he is still here. He is starting to slack off and I have tried to cover for him but we had a tight deadline for a certain task and I reminded him to get his information to me asap. No response and eventually I send a text at night asking him not to forget. He promises to do so and by the time - check my emails he has sent an email saying he has take some some impromptu time off for a week. Essenrially he put me in a mess. What did - do wrong other than being an idiot and sleeping with him? I am still hurting that we are no longer friends but why would he do that? I am stupid, I know.  FYI he has stopped picking my calls since he pulled that stunt.[/quote]

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