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[quote=Anonymous]It affects me a lot. Don't fall for the wishful thinking that it won't, or that the impact is only emotional. It has been really difficult for me to care for them separately as they age, in separate locations. The logustics are not just the holidays, they are every time a parent gets sick or needs help with moving or something. Neither one really has enough savings to afford a nice retirement. My mom is single and lonely, she really dislikes having less grandchild time. The worst is when they are sick at the same time and I have to choose between them. There is no way tp avoid being caught in the middle now that I am an adult and they are losing their ability to live independently. My main advice is do not expect your children to like this. Go ahead and do it if you want and can afford to, but know that it is going to be very difficult for them. Decide if it is worth it to you, knowing that you will probably see less of your kids and grandkids.[/quote]
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