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[quote=Anonymous]The positive to divorce that I see is that I won't be stuck married to a miserable man and will no longer have daily fights with him about the STUPIDEST stuff.  I am exhausted just thinking about all the petty arguments we have on a daily basis.  Yes, daily.  Over things that are not important.at.all.  I'm not completely blameless, I admit I'm not perfect.  But I've tried.  I have tried so hard to turn things around.   I have come to realize that we cannot communicate well at all and our personalities do not mesh anymore.  I say ABC, he says XYZ.  I'm tired of being miserable.  I hate being married to him.  Hate it.

The negatives.  We have small kids.  I feel like I'm screwing them up by staying with him (we are NOT good examples of a healthy relationship - my parents were screwed up too and here I am) but I feel like they will be screwed up if I divorce him too.  I love my kids fiercely and want to screw them up as little as possible.

Yes, we have tried couples counseling.  He basically went into each session pretending like he was actually listening to what I was saying, agreeing with everything so he could get out of there as fast as he could, and then nothing changed.  Nothing.  Nada.  Same old fights.  Same old song.

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