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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think that right now, it sounds like either nothing happened - you had some wine, your colleague was creepy, you brushed him off, and you were already pregnant with a son who looks nothing like your husband - or you were raped by your colleague after he spiked your drink and became pregnant as a result of that encounter. Setting aside how f-ed up and wrong the second scenario is, you could also consider things like your son's birthday in relation to the potential dates of conception (election night and the other night). Was he large when he was born? Did he come early? These are questions that might help you with some of the baby-related math.
As for your current situation, I think that truthfully, if I was in your situation, I would try to forget about it and continue with my life. Bringing this up will bring a world of pain onto your entire family, and for what? The only thing I can think of would be to get your son his accurate family medical history. But doing so will tell a 12yo boy that his mother was sexually assaulted, that his father is a rapist who poisoned a woman to rape her, and that the man he's always thought was his father is not his biological father after all. Your husband may not believe you that it wasn't consensual (like that PP up thread who suggested that this is a situation where you regret sex you had willingly and are now trying to cover your tracks because your son looks like the man you slept with).

I see few benefits to exploring this further, but I can understand why it's hard for you not to.[/quote]

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