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[quote=Anonymous]Discussing this with your parents is not passive aggressive. I am the only girl so I get it. I asked my siblings if they would be willing to contribute and how much, some said $500 some said $200, some said none. For the none, I asked them to plan music (make playlists) the venue had a way to play music... but that is his interest. For another who said none, I had no expectation since he was ill. I also asked the grandchildren to put together a slideshow of pictures and a "history of" how they met, where they lived, etc. I took my budget $1000ish and told my parents the plan and asked them what they thought, was the venue okay, would they like something bigger than my budget allowed which was 25ish people. I asked if they could contribute toward the more people and bar. It was $35/person + bar. They wanted 35 people so they paid for the extra people and the bar tab. We did a family portrait as a gift. [/quote]
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