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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But, I haven't. I'm still taking it. He wants to have a baby now.[b] I'm just not ready. I've told him this many times. It's like he doesn't even hear me. [/b] I know I want kids but not now. Hoping I can buy some time, 6 months - 1 year would be good. Plus we really can't afford it right now.

Am I awful?[/quote]

Hi,Op

This relationship does not sound very healthy if what you wrote is true.  If he doesn't listen now before the stresses of kids what makes you think he is going to listen to you after kids?  I  would find a therapist to deal with this problem first and while there tell him you are preventing from getting pregnant because you don't feel valued or listened to.  What happens if you have one kid and then he starts again with wanting another or doing something with your kid that you don't think is appropriate.  Does he always get his way in other things?  How is he generally on other issues?

You aren't awful but, doesn't sound like you are in a healthy relationship right now.  Good luck![/quote]

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