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[quote=Anonymous]First-- you may be worn out taking care of things. But as a single parent, you will take care of 100% of things. And pay him child support. And maybe alimony, since you significantly outearn him. Secondly, the toughest years of marriage for many people are pre-kindergarten kids. Especially for two working parents, it is exhausting and difficult. Life is not your FB feed, where people post pics of cute kids doing cute things with heart emojis. It is toddler meltdowns over wearing shoes or cutting the sandwich the wrong way and staying up all night with a puking toddler, then trying to figure out which parent is going to miss their presentation at work to stay home with the sick kid. It is never getting enough personal time or sleep. It gets better, but in the meantime, you and your husband need to get on the same page and become a team. He's a great dad? Fantastic-- he takes the kids out for a couple hours on the weekend so you can do bookclub. Can he cook? He does dinner and you do laundry. Whatever it takes to work together. [/quote]
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