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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, op. That sounds awful. In-laws can be rejecting for various reasons. The key is usually how your partner handles it. My mil no longer speaks to me (she suffers from a personality disorder), but the rest of the family is lovely. My dh handles his relationship with his mother, and I find it unfortunate that this is how it is, but I accept it. My SIL (dh's brother's wife) had a very hard time with our mil being so difficult, and literally spent years trying to make it different and I think she let it cause her a great deal of emotional pain. I think you have to recognize they are unlikely to change (or at least accept this as a strong possibility) and figure out if you can live with that. And does your fiancé have your back? Is he supportive of you? For some people, the extended family relationship is important. If that's you, this may not be the right person to marry. But only you can make that decision for yourself. [/quote]
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