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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Put yourself in her shoes. Sending a message to someone in this era of instant communication and then not hearing a response (of any sort back) for days leaves one feeling anxious and unsettled. [b]She's trying to get a reaction from you[/b]. If you want to have a good relationship with her, try responding with at least an acknowledgement of her message sooner. In the time it took you to post on DCUM, you could've sent her a quick message. "Got your message, will reply later." I'm not sure she's the dramatic one; you seem to be inviting it.[/quote] This is not healthy behavior.[/quote] Maybe it would've been more correct to say, "a response." It doesn't seem that the sister is trying to harm OP, just soothe her anxiety, caused by OP's silence. The silent treatment is also unhealthy.[/quote]
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