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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, this woman came looking for support and got the typical DCUM holier than thou trash.

OP, sure, sometimes I feel like running away and have feelings of resentment towards my family (DH and one kid). However, my feelings have never risen to the level that you appear to express (very harsh language, looking at abandoning them). It sounds like your needs are not being met and you are in a rotten place. I would encourage you to start reading and maybe seeking professional advice on how to change the dynamic in your home to make it a happier place for you. How old are your kids? Behavior can be altered through techniques that require consistency and communication. Husbands can be coached and made aware of the impact of their words over time.

This will be a fight, no doubt, but a worthy one. It's not ok to leave your family without trying to fix it. Upping your mess is a start, but the real work is in openness, communication, and a willingness to dig deep and see where you have contributed to the problem, too.

Big hugs. Recognizing a problem is the first step to solving it. Oh, last thoughts--how are your finances? And are you having sex with DH? These sources of stress are often a good place to start. [/quote]

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