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[quote=Anonymous]My close girlfriend confided she has been seeing a co-workers number on his cell phone over the past 2 years. He uses his cell phone for work to, so it could be innocent. However, she's seen 6-25 minutes duration of the calls. He also makes many calls from his office, so he could be talking to her more often. A couple weeks ago she saw a text on his phone. He texted the woman saying he was at her office. Whereby she responded, "ok I'm on my way back now".
The thing is he does have legitimate work over there because there are 4 facilities he travels back and fourth to. We looked her up from her phone number and found out she lives only 5 minutes away and she's single. The text was 9:45 in the morning. Is it possible they are going to her house for an affair? He would be going in her car most likely.

He cheated on her many years ago, but she gave him another chance. Now they are set financially, it would be a big hit to divorce. They are also close to retirement.  If I could I'd go over there and spot check her house during those times, but I can't. My friend works far away, and can't do that during the day.
Also, we are thinking it's a weekly, bi-weekly or monthly thing if he is cheating.

We don't have friends that could do it, and a PI would be too expensive. She is really bothered by this, and wants to put it to rest.

How on earth would you catch someone if they are cheating during the day, and sporadically?[/quote]

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