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[quote=Anonymous]I am not an arguer, I refuse to argue with other people. I have been like this for the past 15-20 years (I am 47). We can talk and discuss and agree to disagree, but I am not going to argue with you because you are allowed to have your opinion even if it is different than mine. That being said, my husband and I disagree and talk about stuff we disagree on and either he sees my point of view or I see his and we move on from there or we agree to disagree and come up with a compromise if necessary. There are definite rules of engagement when we talk about things such as, do not let things fester and build up, say what needs to be said as soon as possible, do not disrespect the other person (no name calling, cussing, condesention, etc.), give the other person space to calm down, think, or get themselves together if necessary (this can be a few minutes or a few hours, but not overnight), do not go to sleep angry... work it out, at least come to a point where both parties are no longer emotional. [/quote]
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