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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Larlo got Larla pregnant on a one night stand. It was an unexpected pregnancy. They weren't in a relationship before or after. Larla often complains about how he's uninvolved. Their relationship has been strained. I suspect she got pregnant out of a desire to basically rope him in. He's a very high earner and she lives off his child support. She recently posted something around the child's birthday and it said "we were blessed with DD x number of years ago"...

If I was not married or never in a relationship with the father of my child and has an unexpected pregnancy, I wouldn't refer to the father of my child as "we." Isn't that kind of language reserved for actual (former or otherwise) couples? [/quote]

1) If it was a ONS, how was she "roping him in"? 
2) The relationship should be defined. If the relationship is defined as "he pays child support and that's it" and she's not happy with that level of involvement, then sure, bitch about how he's not involved. 
3) That said, if the relationship is defined as "he pays child support and that's it" and she is doing all the work of raising a child, you have even less room to complain about her "living off his child support."
4) Why are you friends on FB with someone that you clearly can't stand?
5) Most people think of their children as a blessing, even if they arrived unexpectedly or the relationship with the other parent is strained. What she posted sounds like a nice birthday statement.[/quote]

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