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[quote=Anonymous]I am amazed at how negative DCUM topics are, do the various relationship topics affect how you look at your marriage/relationship?

There are so many discussions on affairs, with many posts making affairs seem normal.  There are so many self righteous posters that feel that if you don't have the same beliefs they do that you are immoral.  So many posts with people complaining about their spouses some valid (based on the one-sided story presented) others petty, does it make you feel better or worse about your spouse?

I have felt that my anger at my DH is justified at times because others are angry for the same reason, but then I remember that he does a lot of things I like as well, but I have to admit those are not the thoughts I have while reading DCUM.  It also make me wonder how many of the negative posts about DWs he would feel reflect how he feels about me and I hope that he feels that he is with me because he loves me and not because he feels trapped like so many posters on DCUM.

It does make me feel better that he and I have stayed faithful to one another, and I am happy to be with him and I value our relationship, particularly when I think about the crappy relationships people post about on DCUM.[/quote]

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