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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I gave a child up for adoption and that was the end of any relationship.  This was a child conceived in a brutal rape and abortion was not an option as I was under age 18 and parents did not believe in abortion.  Please do not do this.  You have been given a good life and you have no right to mess up her life.[/quote]
I'm hoping you have a traditional closed adoption, where your info in unattainable. If not, it is the child's RIGHT to find you when they reach adulthood. [/quote]

Absolutely.
If your parents didn't request a closed adoption, you still may be found.

Although my cousin also had a closed adoption & her North child was able to get her info (due to the wonders of the internet & the powers of an ambitiously sleuthful PI) & her child was able to get in touch with her, which she was thrilled about, since her parents also requested a closed adoption & she had no day in the matter being a minor.

I hope you will not shun your child PP, they didn't ask to be conceived (especially from something as hideously awful as a rape, I'm so, so very sorry), however they will have natural curiosities & you have to expect to be found one day.
I hope if & when that day comes, you can welcome this innocent child with open arms, rather than see the monster that conceived it.

((((( hugs to you, PP & the OP )))))[/quote]

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