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[quote=Anonymous]I dated a decent amount before I met my husband but I met him young, at 22, and we were married when I was 24. I didn't recognize any red flags while in the marriage but was very codependent and I always put myself last. And he always allowed it. It got to the point where I was literally doing everything around the house and taking care of everyone but myself. My needs never got met (it took a lot of therapy for me to recognize this in retrospect). I was exhausted all the time and didn't have the energy to devote to the marriage itself. The marriage died due to this and other reasons. And now my ex is much kinder to me and treats me so much better. He's now very attentive to my needs, it's bizarre actually but I'll take it. We were married for 18 years.[/quote]
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