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[quote=Anonymous]This thread is sort of opposite that "Why did you marry your husband?" thread.

It's easy to gush about how "you just knew" your husband was the one for you, when your marriage is great and everything's hunky dory.

I'd like to hear from the ladies where everything seemed dreamy, you just knew he was "the one", love at first site or whatever, then you ended up divorced.

-What caused the divorce
- How long were you married
-Were there signs or red flags there in the beginning, that you ignored or thought were no big deal, that ended up causing issues for your marriage

The reason I ask is that I am a never married 37 yr old, and dating. I'd like to get married, and I've met someone and it's starting to get serious. I've fallen in love before, and even been engaged, but ultimately those relationships ended, and usually due to things that were there in the beginning that I thought I could handle. My parents' marriage is a mess, so with therapy and by observing friends in healthy marriages, I'm trying to learn how to pick my husband wisely.

I'd like to hear your experiences, and any words of advice you have for me, especially those who started off in what they thought were wonderful loving marriages to the man of their dreams, but ended up divorced. [/quote]

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