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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I appreciate these forums and often post replies on other people’s issues/questions, but I really need some input here.

Divorced (wow… that was 3 years of hell) with equal shared custody of D14.

My daughter has been a been a bit of a drama queen at times, but really a very good kid.  But when she decides to escalate or get mad about something it’s almost impossible to get through and reason with her.

A couple of times in the past, she had a FIT when I posted a VERY NICE picture of us, or a VERY FLATTERING picture of her on my FaceBook page. I am not connected with any of her friends because none of them are on FB, the only people who see this are my 50yo friends.

Her mother would troll my page via some mutual friend (we have each other blocked) and would show my daughter if there was a pic and say “Once again, he can’t be trusted; he’s a LIAR!”.  Just causing drama where there is no reason to.

I swear the only times I posted a pic (4 times in the last 18mos?) was to say how proud I am of her or share some great achievement of hers. It’s never sappy, funny, or embarrassing in any way.

Tonight I was woken up by a barrage of texts from her that I MUST IMMEDIATELY remove a post where I shared some fantastic news of a recent award she got and how incredibly proud I was of her. The texts kept coming and were more and more vitriolic until she said “I’m so upset. I deleted it. Thanks.  See you in the morning :)”

The only way she could have done this is if she had my password and logged into my account. She wouldn’t have been able to see the post from her or her mom’s account and SURELY not delete it.  So…

That means she has been snooping in my computer or private files, logged my password to FB (and god knows what else), and logged into my account to delete the post.

I. Am. FURIOUS.

All she talks about in the texts is how she has trust issues with me and may never ever trust me again.  Well hacking into someone’s FB page isn’t the most trustful thing one can do.

But check me on this - IMHO the bottom line is…

You are the child and I am the parent.  If I choose to show a nice picture that you are in to my FB friends then STFU and deal with it.  I am exhausted of walking on eggshells and trying to make up for the divorce.

I am going to shut off her cell phone and cut her off from technology.  If her mother wants her to have a phone, she can buy it and pay the monthly plan. I'm sure I won't be given the number.

I. Am. DONE.

Am I out of line?

No, but maybe don't post pictures or information about someone who has explicitly told you not to.
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