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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're not over it clearly so let it go. I'm sure she has no interest in hashing out an 8 year old fight, just seeing if maybe you all had reached a life stage to naturally reconnect. [/quote]

Considering she never acknowledged her behavior (to me), yeah we aren't just going to reconnect like nada happened. However, at one point she was an awesome person - she just morphed into this person that was not an awersome person.

And, before everyone jumps on me, we have a couple mutual friends that also dropped her about 6/7 years ago, for the same behavior. Sooo, it isn't just me. An acquaintance did tell me that ex-best friend admitted about five years ago she had lost like all her friends.

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I'm not judging you for not wanting to reconnect or saying you have an obligation to do so. Just pointing out that someone reaching out tentatively after 8 years is likely just putting a toe in the water and uninterested in a deep dive into a  old fight.

You seem SUPER defensive about the whole thing which mean imo you're still carrying around a lot of resentment and should do both of you a favor and not respond[/quote]

I am not resentful, but I think the whole thing is weird. If I decide to respond, there will be a line that if she can't acknowledge past mistakes and say she is different - then, I am not interested. I don't considered what happened a fight - I one day just told her I wasn't interested in being friends with someone of her character and when she wants to treat me and our mutual friends better, then we can be friends. I haven't spent the last 8 years waiting for an apology - I have filled it with people who are awesome to be around. She is the one that reached out to me and is now stalking my social media after I didn't respond to her last message.

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