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[quote=Anonymous]Asking others because I honestly don't know. My ILs are coming to town for my DH's grandfather's funeral. The next day we are hosting a cookout--about 25 people. Some relatives are staying with us and others in a nearby hotel. My SIL is bringing 2 cats and staying at a pet-friendly hotel. She wants the cats to stay at our house during the funeral and reception (so they aren't cooped up in the hotel) and come to the cookout the next day. My first instinct is to say no, but I'm not sure I have a good reason--the cats go to the bathroom in the toilet (which I think is gross, but whatever), they generally don't jump on countertops, my toddler is ok with cats, and nobody (as far as I know) is allergic. Is it ok to say no (to me, I just don't want the risk of cats breaking things while we're gone as well as the nuisance of making sure my toddler doesn't pull the cats' tails while I'm trying to host) or am I overreacting?[/quote]
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