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[quote=Anonymous]Recognize that when you go through these uncomfortable feelings, your focus should be inward - on yourself - rather than your BF. Meaning, you CANNOT look to him to soothe or reassure you, or whatever it is you seek from him when these thoughts arise. It sounds like you recognize this is your issue and that it is a problem, which is key - that is a good sign that you can overcome this. Are you already seeing a therapist? That's where I'd start. What strategies have you used in the past for intrusive, obsessive thoughts? [/quote]
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