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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is how my husband works, or rather procrastinates. He has ADHD, and that is pretty typical behavior for inattentive types. He is also late, forgetful, not very productive (albeit highly intelligent and he's hired to troubleshoot). So, I suppose that's your girlfriend's personality. What other symptoms have you seen? [/quote] Honestly, that seems exactly like her. She is a great person but I worry that if we marry, I will fall into a parenting role. [/quote] I don't know if I would worry about that yet. Losing a job can be really demoralizing. Having 4 interviews in 5 weeks actually seems like a pretty good result. I get that you're concerned about her paying the bills, but I would also point out that getting a job can take a while and it doesn't mean that you're going to have to be her parent. Maybe try just trusting her and letting her work her process before assuming the worst?[/quote]
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