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[quote=Lonely_Sojourner][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was just thinking that there's nothing worse than going on a first date with someone who treats you like a candidate at a job interview. What every happened to the art of conversation? People have become so witless and dull.

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Because I know what I want.  And if you don't meet the big criteria, the little stuff doesn't matter.  After the interview, if the big stuff doesn't match, then I'm happy to become friends without benefits and I'll converse with you till the cows come home.  I'll also probably only see you once every two or three months as my schedule permits.[/quote]

How would you develop any level of chemistry or respect from an "interview"?  Further, it's not uncommon that you adopt some of your spouses / SO's views or beliefs in lieu of your own, especially if they are from a different culture.  That is the beauty of being part of a couple, you share all kinds of things.  I was fortunate enough to marry my best friend (16 years) until she died of cancer.  Over time, I saw that some of her beliefs were far better than my own (she was Asian).

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