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[quote=Anonymous]I feel for you. I had similar concerns about my exH. I white-knuckled it in a sh*tty marriage for 8 years. I documented the hell out of the various incidents/insanity, but (obviously) no one could guarantee that he wouldn't have the kids for a substantial proportion of time. I waited until they seemed resilient, mature, and self-sufficient enough to hold their own. I filed when they were 11; divorce was finalized when they were 12 and a half. (Insult to injury, bc I was the plaintiff, I had to take a mandatory parenting class. He did not.) Ultimately, I have them the vast majority of time; he has them every other weekend. I'm not saying this was the best / right approach. Just sharing my experience.[/quote]
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