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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he is truly apologetic and you think he has good intentions, maybe he has ADHD. He reminds me a lot of my husband. We have a similar system to PP where he has a lot of set tasks he does every day, while I handle more unpredictable stuff. Also, LISTS. Lists everywhere.

Can't really help you with the not being home when he says he will thing, though. That makes me wonder if he is just avoiding chores at home... [/quote]

I do believe he is sorry and has good intentions. I don't think he has ADHD at all. He actually has laser focus...for work. I do think a set of tasks with a list could help though. [/quote]

People with ADHD can often have laser focus on a very specific thing (e.g. his current work project). It's the keeping track of all the various balls in the air that throws them.[/quote]

That is classic ADD!  Hyper focus on some things, but can't manage time and juggle tasks well enough to get all the work done on time.  Keeping both home and work on track is too much for him. You need to figure out what he can do (maybe a set list in the morning) and build his tasks up gradually [/quote]

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