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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We suspect my Mother has borderline personality disorder. She actively says she doesn't care for me, has nothing to say to me, and talks badly about me to everyone. Yet, she continues to text me and email me with things addressed to my children only. Considering her disdain for me, our kids don't have a relationship with her. So now she tells everyone that I won't allow her to speak to her grandchildren. This is crazy, right?[/quote] You need to be direct and tell her that there is no relationship with your children unless there is relationship with you. She can't be nice to the kids and be mean to their mom. The kids care that grandma is mean to their mom. They do not want other people hurting your feelings or hurting you. I am willing to bet your mom never even considered that. You are their mom, they love you best and nothing grandma does will ever change that. Cut her off completely - block her texts, block her email. [/quote]
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