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[quote=Anonymous]I've seen similar behavior too, but not so much because the kids were never told "no", but because these kids need parents involvement often and parents are just too tired to "play" all the time. They just let them do whatever they do to entertain themselves because if pretty exhausting to play with them and find things for them to do. They might also be more energetic and usually left to come up with things to do by themselves.
My sister has a good way of redirecting any kid's attention to doing things rather than breaking thing. I on the other hand always wondered why the kids don't just behave, how hard can it be! Well, I was a kid when I thought so. Now I'm more into getting them to do something different and keeping them out of my closet and off my couch.
I've hardly even said "no" to my kid. He usually gets in trouble when he is bored and wants attention. It has been exhausting to keep him busy every minute, but he is 3 now and school is getting closer.
Have to tell you that I haven't even seen this bad behavior a lot. I just remember that my 2 cousins were crazy kids and even beat my older shelf up one time. They turned out ok. Maybe they got beat at school by other kids, not sure.
Why don't you not have those kids over if they drive you crazy. Treating kids like kings seemed to go with involved parents. Those kids sound like they are high energy with not involved parents. By involved I mean they sit down with them to play games, play hide and seek, go to parks, museums, zoo.
Why can't you tell your friend her kids misbehave?  
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