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[quote=Anonymous]2 paths b/c I've taken both. One- you point it out, and refuse to go to the wedding. This happened with one (former) friend, they are still together, everyone moves on. (Fwiw- it has been a rough road for this friend from what I've heard through others, but at least they might be happy in the marriage? ) it is tough b/c you lose the friendship. 2- you keep your mouth a little more shut, so when things fall apart, which it looks like they will, you will be there to help your friend. I did this for another friend when everyone else spoke out. I said very little, and told her I was supportive of her (not commenting on him.) Shit hit the fan, and later I told her I thought it was more important to support her, even if she was making questionable decisions. I was the only one she didn't cut out during that time. Just don't let yourself be used. You shouldn't have to completely bail her out. [/quote]
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