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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't have to.  You are choosing to, and you will feel better if you acvept that you do have agency here and own your choices.[/quote]

You are right, but what my kids lose is too great. We dont fight.  I no longer have the passion to fight, Im apathetic.  So as far as they are concerned, we are a happy family.

So sure i can make the choice, but i also don't want to share holidays or weekends.  My ideal scenario would be living together, but divorced.[/quote]

I'm not saying you should get divorced.  The decision to stay together may be the right one.  But you will feel better if you mentally regard it as a choice (even if it is a choice between two bad choices) and think about what other choices you can make to improve your situation. [/quote]

I kind of agree with this.  It is mentally a choice to stay together rather than to split up and not have your kids each day, possibly put them through some ugliness, possibly have another parent come into their lives, etc.  But, for those who've made this choice, are you happy with it in the end?[/quote]

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