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[quote=Anonymous]My sister actually has a similarly odd diet (I will point out she's eaten like this most of her life, and still got breast cancer in her 40's, but whatev's) and she just takes care of her own food when she's here. I usually pick up some fruit that I know she'll like, and her favorite cheese, but outside of that, she'll buy and cook her own food. Just cook your food like you usually do, and let her make her own meals. Let go of seeing her "judgement". That's on her, not you. Disengage as much as you can. So what if she stayed home when her kids were little - consider that a nice anecdote from your dh's childhood and don't accept it as a reflection on your own choices. That's the part you need to own here. You are in charge of feeling "judged" - you can choose to not feel that way.[/quote]
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