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[quote=Anonymous]You're under no obligation to do anything, but it's generally nice to accommodate your guests. I think you had another post about this in "Expectant Moms" forum. TBH, this is an issue between you and DH to resolve. Then he can deal with his mother. You're not going to do yourself any favors by dealing directly with your MIL on this if you can avoid it. But if your DH won't step up, then I think you need to simply put your foot down and refuse visits from MIL until you can find a manageable way for her to visit. It's actually easier to say, "no visits" than it is to resolve details of how the visit will go. My ILs are much nicer than yours, but after a particularly difficult one last year I told DH "no visits" unless he took some time off while they were in town to entertain them (they won't drive while here). They are here right now, and DH did take time off during their visit. The visit has been very pleasant as a result.[/quote]
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