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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. He sees a psychiatrist and takes meds. He doesn't go into high drive ever -- just becomes something g like "normal" at times. He does seems to have abandonment issues but his therapy never got him fully better. He's definitely got some depressive issues but he's actually been interested in sex during some of His lower-energy phases and turned it down when he's not depressed. I sometimes wonder if it's a control thing.

In my heart I think I'd love to have an affair but I don't see myself that way. Also don't know how I'd meet anyone. I'm decent looking for 45 and fun to be around when I'm with friends and not sadly watching my husband's changing engagement with me. But I don't work with many men and I'd be afraid an internet hookup would be dangerous.

I wonder if there's any way to fix what I have. I work so hard not to be
Critical because he just shuts down when he feels judged. OTOH I already lost so many years to this cycle. There's longevity in my genes. I could be around another 50 years and I don't like thinking my chances at partnership and being adored and desired are nil. [/quote]

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